7 Things To Do When You And Your Boyfriend Are Not Talking

7 Things To Do When You And Your Boyfriend Are Not Talking

It is a tough time when you both are not talking you feeling stressful, upset and feel like things could never be right in your world. These are some suggestion of things that you can do when you and your boyfriend are not talking to make it easier for you to handle.

1. Give Him Time To Think – Generally if you both are not talking there must be an argument or disagreement between you both on any topic. That can feel very overwhelming to some guys. They generally need more time than we do to process their thoughts and emotion after a conflict. So one of the thing is to back off little when you and your boyfriend are not talking.

2. Consider Your Part In The Disagreement – It can be wise to consider your part in disagreement when you and your partner are not talking. Consider it perhaps you were wrong. Taking responsibility for your part in an argument is a mature action.

3. Think About What You Want To Say – It’s also good to think about what you want to say when you and your boyfriend do talk again. Think about the main ideas you want to share.

4. Talk to Friend – It can be good to hash through the situation with a wise friend. They can give you an outstanding opinion and even brings things to light you may not have considered.

5. Go Have Some Fun – There is no need to sit around moping and crying when you and your boyfriend aren't talking. Getting out can help get your mind off of it.

6. Let Him Miss You – It’s good to let your guy to miss you little bit. Of course you can call him but sometimes it’s good to let him miss when you both are in argument to let him know your value.

7. Re-evaluate The Relationship - It's also wise to take the time you aren't talking to re-evaluate your relationship a little bit. Are there any red flags you should be seeing? Is it a normal disagreement that most couples might have? Or is it an argument you're having because your boyfriend is controlling, selfish or overly jealous? Evaluating the relationship is sometimes important to do.