Monday, November 24, 2014

Seven Signs You May Be Taking Things Too Personally In Your Relationship


Seven Signs You May Be Taking Things Too Personally In Your Relationship



Have you ever felt like you were taking things personally in a relationship that you shouldn't? Most people have done it at some point. Realizing that you may be taking things personally in a relationship is a good first step toward changing that habit.

1. There’s A Lot of Miscommunication - Many times, men and women interpret things completely differently. Miscommunication can be the source of many disagreements in a relationship. It’s very possible to think your boyfriend means something different than what he actually does mean. Taking things personally in a relationship is often the result of miscommunication.

2. He Says He Means Something Else – Sometimes it happens when your boyfriend says something to you and you ask him about that again and he says he means something else. It’s actually a good thing if your guy speaks up. It’s great if he can offer clarification. This can save you from feeling hurt.

3. It’s An Unrelated Incident – Sometimes women thinks everything is personal in a relationship like if your boyfriend is going out with his friends for night you may be feel he is doing those things because he doesn't want to be with you.

4. Your Friends Sees Things Differently – Its wonderful to have wise friends who can see things different from you.   They may be able to see that you’re taking things too personally in your relationship.

5. Your Ideas Seems Like a Stretch - It may just be that he has different interests or different opinions to you. It’s healthy to realize you’ll always be two separate individuals even though you’re a couple.

6. He Tells You It Isn't Personal – Your guy may tell you that you’re taking things too personally. He can easily see that because he knows what he meant. This is a very clear sign you take things too personally. This could ruin your relationship trust.

7. You Tend To Think Emotionally – Lot of women thinks by their emotion rather than logic.  If you can make the switch in your mind and think logically, you’ll probably see that your guy’s actions probably aren't personal. This can make you feel much more hopeful about your relationship. 

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