7 ways to be less shy around guys

7 ways to be less shy around guys

If you struggling to talk to your crush, have no fear, because there are ways to be less shy around guys.  After you have a few conversations with the opposite sex, you'll realize that they're nothing to be worried about. Here are a few ways to be less shy around guys.

1. They are Human Too - Men aren't all that different from women. I mean, we're all human, so how many differences can there be? Pick a topic that you talk to your girl friends about, and try talking to your crush about it.

2. Don’t Flirt yet - you should learn to feel comfortable having a regular conversation with them, and then you can start throwing the compliments out. Just don't have high expectations during every single conversation, because you're not going to land a date after talking about the weather.

3. Look Good, Feel Good - When you look good, you feel good. You shouldn't dress to impress him, though. You should dress well so that you feel good about yourself.

4. Get Together a Group - You don't have to hang out with your crush one on one. You can get together a group of friends so that you don't feel as much pressure when you talk to him. It's also a great way for him to see the real you, because you'll be acting normal in front of your friends.

5. Keep it Calm - If you're freaking out beforehand, you may start to sweat or stutter. Take a few deep breaths before you walk over and remember that there's nothing to worry about. 

6. Be Yourself - He doesn't want to meet Carrie Bradshaw, he wants to meet you. If you're not yourself and you hit it off, then you'll have to keep pretending until you break up with him, and that's no fun. 

7. You are Awesome - He's the one who should be nervous, not you. If you keep reminding yourself of how awesome you are, then talking to him won't be all that terrifying. It'll actually be fun.